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Michael Stokamer, Esq & Mediator, helps separating and divorcing couples, in NYC or New Jersey, resolve their differences peacefully and with dignity using Mediation and Collaborative Practice. The couple reaches an agreement that is best for them and best for their children.

A further advantage is that costs are reasonable, whether seeking a Legal Separation or Divorce, for both Mediation and Collaborative Practice.

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“I was often in awe (and quite relieved) as Michael smoothed the waters, stuck with the issues at hand, and fairly negotiated the points of our separation agreement. Our situation was extremely difficult to say the least. And yet Michael displayed extraordinary patience and remained dutifully impartial while imparting a huge amount of unexpected warmth throughout the entire process!” - BC.

Divorce is the second most stressful event in life, second only to the death of an immediate family member. The end of the relationship in the form of a legal separation or divorce can be the beginning of devastating and traumatic emotions, changes in lifestyle and financial status, and experience with unfamiliar legal processes and principles.

The old way of seeking a Divorce or Legal Separation, hiring lawyers to engage in divorce litigation in court, is financially and emotionally expensive and time consuming. It polarizes the parties and does nothing to help communication or solve issues such as child custody, child support, alimony (also called maintenance or spousal support), nor does it help families develop parenting plans that serve the best interests of the children. Those people who think that courts will make the right decisions and secure a better financial settlement for their families are most often wrong. Most often the litigation process fails to meet families’ needs or expectations, with costs rising out of control, and relationships destroyed.

Separating or divorcing couples can successfully adjust to the realities of their new situation, reach sensible financial settlements, find child-centered solutions, preserve relationships and move on with their lives without litigation. Through the non-adversarial processes of Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation Mediation, or Collaborative Divorce Law, you and your spouse or partner can tailor a legal separation agreement that works for you and your family after a separation or divorce.

My goal is to help couples seeking a legal separation or divorce who want to avoid prolonged conflict and reach solutions that work for them and their families without the intervention of courts or judges. I do that by guiding couples, step by step, through the decision making necessary for a legal separation or divorce process; by helping them understand the issues, the law , and the process that can enable them to reach acceptable agreements; and by working with them on what is most important: to minimize the financial and emotional expense of the separation or divorce experience and to reach child-centered agreements that work best for the entire family.

I’m Mike Stokamer, Divorce Mediator & Collaborative Attorney,
I have offices in both Manhattan, and Bergen County NJ.
Give me a call today
and we’ll discuss your options for a less stressful, more amicable, and lower cost legal separation or divorce.

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Michael Stokamer, Divorce Mediator and Attorney, proudly provides Legal Separation, Divorce Mediation, and low cost Divorce Collaborative Law serves divorcing or separating couples in the following areas of - New York County, New York, Manhattan (NYC), NY 10280, 10007, 10038, 10002, 10013, 10012, 10014, 10003, 10009, 10011, 10010, 10018, 10017, 10022, 10036, 10020, 10019, 10022, 10021, 10028, 10029, 10036, 10037, 10030, 10039, 10032, 10033, 10040, 10034 all in NYC. These services include No Fault Divorce, Legal Separation Papers, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Law, and Collaborative Divorce Law.

Divorce Mediation Solutions & Mike Stokamer, Esq. provides Legal Separation, Divorce Mediation, and Collaborative Divorce services to the following counties and towns in - Bergen County, New Jersey - Cliffside Park, NJ 07010, Edgewater, NJ 07020, Fairview, NJ 07022, Fort Lee, NJ 07024, Garfield, NJ 07026, North Arlington, NJ 07031, Wallington, NJ 07057, Rutherford, NJ 07070, Lyndhurst, NJ 07071, Carlstadt, NJ 07072, East Rutherford, NJ 07073, Moonachie, NJ 07074, Wood Ridge, NJ 07075, Allendale, NJ 07401, Elmwood Park, NJ 07407, Fairlawn, NJ 07410, Franklin Lakes, NJ 07417, Ho Ho Kus, NJ 07423, Mahwah, NJ 07430, Midland Park, NJ 07432, Oakland, NJ 07436, Ramsey, NJ 07446, Ridgewood, NJ 07450, Glen Rock, NJ 07452, Saddle River, NJ 07458, Waldwick, NJ 07463, Wyckoff, NJ 07481, Hackensack, NJ 07601, 07602, Bogota, NJ 07603, Hasbrouck Heights, NJ 07604, Leonia, NJ 07605, Maywood, NJ 07607, Alpine, NJ 07620, Bergenfield, NJ 07621, Closter, NJ 07624, Cresskill, NJ 07626, Demarest, NJ 07627, Dumont, NJ 07628, Englewood, NJ 07631, Englewood Cliffs, NJ 07632, Harrington Park, NJ 07640, Haworth, NJ 07641, Hillsdale, NJ 07642, Little Ferry, NJ 07643, Lodi, NJ 07644, Montvale, NJ 07645, New Milford, NJ 07646, Northvale, NJ 07647, Norwood, NJ, 07648, Oradell, NJ 07649, Palisades Park, NJ 07650, Paramus, NJ 07652, 07653, Park Ridge, NJ 07656, Ridgefield, NJ 07657, Ridgefield Park, NJ 07660, River Edge, NJ 07661, Rochelle Park, NJ 07662, Teaneck, NJ 07666, Tenafly, NJ 07670, Westwood, NJ 07675, Teterboro, NJ 07608, Emerson, NJ 07630, Saddle Brook, NJ 07663.

Legal Separation, Divorce Mediation, and Collaborative Divorce services are provided by Mike Stokamer, Divorce Mediator & Attorney, in the following towns in Essex County, New Jersey - Bloomfield, NJ 07003, Fairfield, NJ 07004, Caldwell, NJ 07006, Cedar Grove, NJ 07009, East Orange, NJ 07017, Essex Falls, NJ 07021, Livingston, NJ 07039, Maplewood, NJ 07040, Milburn, NJ 07041, Montclair, NJ 07042, Orange, NJ 07050, West Orange, NJ 07053, Short Hills, NJ 07078, South Orange, NJ 07079, Newark, NJ 07102, 07103, 07104, 07105, 07106, 07107, 07108, 07109, 07110, 07111, 07112, 07114, 07175, 07182, 07184, 07188, 07189, 07191, 07192, 07193, 07194, 07195, 07196, 07197, 07198, 07199, Glen Ridge, NJ 07028.

Collaborative Divorce Law, Family Law services, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation Papers, and No Fault Divorce services are provided by Michael P. Stokamer, Mediation Attorney, and Divorce Mediation Solutions in the following towns in Hudson, New Jersey - Bayonne, NJ 07002, Harrison, NJ 07029, Hoboken, NJ 07030, Kearney, NJ 07032, North Bergen, NJ 07047, Union City, NJ 07087, West New York, NJ 07093, Secaucus, NJ 07096, 07094, Jersey City, NJ 07302, 07303, 07304, 07305, 07306, 07307, 07308, 07309, 07310, 07311, 07399. And in Montclair County, New Jersey - Verona, NJ 07044.

Mike Stokamer, JD & Divorce Mediator, provides affordable Marital Separation, and Marital Divorce for less services through Divorce Mediation, and Collaborative Divorce Law, in the following towns & cities in Passaic County, New Jersey - Clifton, NJ 07011, Passaic, NJ 07055, Bloomingdale, NJ 07403, Haskell, NJ 07420, Hewitt, NJ 07421, Little Falls, NJ 07424, Newfoundland, NJ 07435, Oak Ridge, NJ 07438, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442, Ringwood, NJ 07456, Wanaque, NJ 07465, Wayne, NJ 07470, West Milford, NJ 07480, Paterson, NJ 07501, 07502, 07503, 07504, 07505, Hawthorne, NJ 07506, Haledon, NJ 07508, and Totowa, NJ 07511, 07512.

Low cost Divorce Mediation, for an No Fault Divorce in New York and New Jersey, Legal Separation Papers, and Collaborative Divorce Services are provided by Divorce Mediation Solutions and Mike Stokamer, Mediator and Lawyer in the following Union County New Jersey towns - Plainfield, NJ 07060, 07061, 07062, Rahway, NJ 07065, Clark, NJ 07066, Scotch Plains, NJ 07076, Springfield, NJ 07081, Union, NJ 07083, Vauxhall, NJ 07088, Westfield, NJ 07090, Mountainside, NJ 07092, Elizabeth, NJ 07201, 07202, Roselle, NJ 07203, Roselle Park, NJ 07204, Hillside, NJ 07205, Elizabeth, NJ 07206, 07207, 07208.